Nikah Allah ki ek nishani hai. Quran kehta hai ke Allah ne tumhare liye tumhi mein se jode banaye taake tum un se sukoon hasil karo, aur tumhare darmiyan mohabbat aur rehmat rakh di (Surah Ar-Rum 30:21). Jab ghar mein ikhtilaf aaye to dua ke saath saath Nabi ﷺ ki talimaat par amal hi asal hal hai. Is post mein miyan biwi ke liye masnoon duayen aur achhe izdiwaji rishte ke Islami usool bayan kiye gaye hain.
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1. Rabbana Hab Lana (Aankhon ki Thandak ki Dua)
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِيْنَ إِمَامًا
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa zurriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil-muttaqeena imama.
Tarjuma: Aye hamare Rab! Hamein hamari biwiyon (shohar) aur aulaad se aankhon ki thandak ata farma, aur hamein parhezgaron ka peshwa bana. (Surah Al-Furqan 25:74)
Yeh dua Allah ke “Ibad-ur-Rahman” (Rehman ke khaas bandon) ki sifaat mein bayan hui hai. Shohar aur biwi dono namaz ke baad ya kisi bhi waqt yeh dua kar sakte hain.
2. Nikah ki Mubarakbad ki Dua
بَارَكَ اللّٰهُ لَكَ، وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ، وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِيْ خَيْرٍ
Barakallahu laka, wa baraka ‘alaika, wa jama’a bainakuma fi khair. — Allah tumhare liye barkat de, tum par barkat nazil kare, aur tum dono ko bhalai mein jama rakhe. Nabi ﷺ nikah karne wale ko yahi dua dete (Sunan Abi Dawood 2130, Jami Tirmidhi 1091).
3. Ek Doosre ke liye Maghfirat ki Dua
Rabbanagh-fir li wa li-walidayya wa lil-mu’mineena yawma yaqumul-hisab (Surah Ibrahim 14:41) aur Hazrat Ibrahim عليه السلام ki dua: Rabbij’alni muqeemas-salati wa min zurriyyati (14:40). Namaz mein in duaon ko apni zindagi ke saathi ke liye bhi niyyat kar sakte hain. Darood ke baad ki duayen: Dua-e-Masura.
Quran o Sunnat ke Mutabiq Khushgawar Rishte ke 7 Usool
- Achha sulook: “Aur un (biwiyon) ke saath bhale tareeqe se zindagi guzaro” (Surah An-Nisa 4:19).
- Ghar walon ke liye behtareen bano: Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya: “Tum mein behtar woh hai jo apne ghar walon ke liye behtar hai, aur main apne ghar walon ke liye tum sab se behtar hoon” (Jami Tirmidhi 3895).
- Khoobiyon par nazar: “Koi momin mard kisi momina aurat se nafrat na kare; agar us ki ek aadat napasand hai to doosri pasand hogi” (Sahih Muslim 1469).
- Huqooq ka khayal: “Aur auraton ke liye bhi waise hi haq hain jaise un par haq hain, bhale tareeqe se” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:228).
- Ghar ke kaam mein haath batana: Hazrat Aisha رضی اللہ عنہا farmati hain ke Nabi ﷺ ghar walon ke kaam kaaj mein lage rehte the (Sahih Bukhari 676).
- Jhagde mein insaaf aur sulah: Agar ikhtilaf badh jaye to dono ke khandan se ek ek samajhdaar shakhs faisle ke liye muqarrar karo; agar woh islah chahenge to Allah un mein muwafaqat paida kar dega (Surah An-Nisa 4:35).
- Namaz aur zikr: Namaz ghar mein sukoon laati hai. Ek doosre ko Tahajjud ke liye jagane wale miyan biwi par Allah reham farmata hai (Sunan Abi Dawood 1308). Tareeqa: Tahajjud ki Namaz.
Ehtiyat: Kisi ka dil zabardasti apni taraf pherne ke liye “taweez”, “amal” ya aamilon ke paas jana jaiz nahi aur aksar dhoka hota hai. Sachchi dua, achha akhlaq, aur zaroorat ho to ulama aur khandan ke buzurgon ka mashwara hi sahih raasta hai. Agar ghar mein zulm ya tashaddud ho to qanooni aur khandani madad zaroor lein.
FAQs
Miyan biwi mein mohabbat ki sab se behtareen dua kaun si hai?
“Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa zurriyyatina qurrata a’yun…” (Surah Al-Furqan 25:74).
Nikah ki mubarakbad kaise dein?
“Barakallahu laka, wa baraka ‘alaika, wa jama’a bainakuma fi khair” (Abu Dawood 2130).
Ghar ke jhagde khatam karne ka Islami tareeqa kya hai?
Sabr, achha sulook, aur zaroorat ho to dono khandanon se ek ek saalis muqarrar karna (Surah An-Nisa 4:35).
